Why doesn't my mom like me and why can't she just grow up?

It's an age old battle. All parents have trouble adjusting to their kid's getting older. And kid's also have trouble getting older without having to deal with their parents trying to push ideals on them. I know it's tough, but this is going to take a lot of patience... I mean A LOT. It's going to be a long time before you two harmonize. It's pretty awful for you two to go through, but it's pretty normal in terms of growing up. Sorry kiddo, you're just going to have to wait it out.